Cali,

There are other things going on besides the B-day dinner. I am not asking her if she wants to go. I am trying to be a little agressive. I have been too pasive for to long. My plan is to tell her not to make any plans on the 5th I am taking her out.

I have been a yes dear kind of guy for to long. We never really argue because I back down.
Not that I wantto argue but am starting to put my foot down a little. ( I only have one ya know)

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know