All hope is lost/help

[cat03]

my H put a marker on the "not just friends" book about separating temporarely. I thought "he's thinking of leaving" but when we talk there is no plans to move out, he's staying here. If you are freeting about the magazine just asking casually "are you looking for a place? I noticed that property mag on the table".

Hope for the best but be ready for the worst. Now, if he were to leave what would you do? make a plan. I know, you want to push such thoughts off your mind, but you must make a back up plan, so you know that you WILL be ok if it happens, that if he needs time to sort himself out you will go on with life.
Not what you might want to hear, but trust me, it will give you the peace to "wait" for him.