You've reach the "rock bottom" stage that happens over and over again to us ladies. I can see how his inaction is making you feel neglected. And that's why I really, really want you to get this book "Men, Love & Sex: The Complete User's Guide for Women" it is awesome! it talks about the exact problems you are having.
====== He thinks that if I am quiet and not saying anything about our M, that everything is fine. ============== Yep, we could be boiling mad in our own juices and our Hs would be clueless... unless we give them concrete and specific info.
============= share with me how he is feeling ... ============ You might've as well ask him to smash his thumbs with a sledge hammer. Men hate R talk and is like pulling teeth. If he is the kind of guy that does not talk easily, choose a time when you aren't upset and when you are both relaxed and bring up the subjects that bother you. Present a plan, no negatives "we never, I always.." You can tell him how much you'd like if you ML x times a week, how you love it when he says such and such. Be specific about what "a little romance" means to you.
Hugs luv, hope you feel better now
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
