I don't think that's wrong at all. Actually, I think that's an excellent idea. I have a tendancy when things with my M go wrong to get into a depression and let everything fall apart. I've been working really hard to not let that happen this time and when my W does come over, I want her to see a clean house and a healthy me. If we're supposed to project happiness and contentment (act as if) then I think keeping a nice home is absolutely a piece of that. It's an outward sign of how we are inside.
