My H is also doing charity work for our church (barf). He helps out with their financial reports and also prepares the church for their concerts. It is such a mass irony, isn't it. (no pun intended).
It is like they live in 2 different worlds.- good/bad
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"