I have a story there too. My wife sneaked up on me last week, and saw I was on this website.
So she googled "divorecebusters"... then poked around this website for a while in the MLC and Going Dark threads. Then she googled (get this): "how to stop a divorcebusting spouse"
The first thing that popped in my head was: "YOU CAN'T!!!"
DBing is for the benefit of the LBS! We are GALing and doing 180's not for the benefit of the marriage, but for ourselves!