lester, I don't have the patience for it. I lost it on H the other night when his phone rang twice while we were discussing our kids. Granted I stayed calm, but I should have walked away. I spent all summer trying to fix things, H was pleasant, but I come to learn that the whole time, the A was going on behind my back. Talk about patience, or lack of? I felt like such a schmuck. Still do.
And yes, everything you said about being fine (even great) is very true. Its great you have that outlook. But funny thing is, we still want our WAS's back, that's what would make our new life even better.
