SInce the Separation, she wont even call me by my name or honey or anything and I am starting to come unglued by being invisible like this. It is like I do not exist. I get this at the beginning, but almost 7 mos later to say "HEY" instead of CVA or Honey or Jerkoff, or....is dehumanizing and cruel and I wont stand for it anymore. Enemies have enough respect to give people respect by name if nothing else.
CVA- My H is the same way, he doesn't call me anything. I was so sad when I saw that he changed me on his phone from "Sweetie" to "Teresa", but he never even calls me that.
This might be a good time for you to do a 180 from what you've been doing. I think you've been too available to her. I may be wrong, but it seems like you're in a routine that lets her know that you're waiting for her, no matter what. Maybe you can shake things up a bit by taking the kids somewhere on your own a couple of times a week (not dependent on her plans). Do you spend time alone with them, other than when you're with them so she can go out? I think looking for a more permanent residence that has plenty of space for the kids might also be a good idea. Hugs...
