Oh man! I know that feeling. I heard from OW's H that my H and OW were dreaming of going away with ALL the kids for the weekend. Oh yeah, so not going to happen, even if I have to completely piss off H and get legal on his A$$. I feel your pain. You have to be completely unaffected by what she is saying. Like theo said, acknowledge it with a calm response, and let it go. Then go outside and kick a tree. I am sorry about your accident. Isn't it sad when they are so unfeeling?