A pity he can't be an adult about this stuff at the moment. Other folks have posted this, and there is a fine line to walk, but if your M moves to sep and D then that's a business transaction. You've mentioned in the past that you've let him walk all over you. Stop. If there are some things that you really like and want, get them -- in as nice a way as possible. His actions, though born out of fear and probably even love for you and hurt that you're leaving, are also continued justification/examples of why you left. Bear that in mind. And:
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For now the ball is in his court. Interesting how the WAS can have the LBS just turn on them...Leaves us WAS that really wanted to work on things in the lurch. Taste of our own medicine maybe?
I thought you had left to maintain your sanity and in the hopes of working on your M. Your H is set in that your M was fine. In your eyes, it certainly wasn't. From what I've read of your sitch, you were in the lurch from the beginning because he wanted to work on the R, but only on his terms, with no changes necessary on his part.
You are shouldering your share of the blame. He's not. Keep that in mind. I've found myself, as I focus on this DB stuffus, blaming myself TOO much. It takes too to tango. Right now, he ain't dancing.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
