THis is a little off topic but you know what's weird mark? I did some snooping on the Internet history and wife has looked up wedding cakes, dresses, honeymoons and crap
The dichotomy is weird... seems like she wants fantasy marriage and the real one while I'm getting less to caring if I stay married but trying to work on a real marriage but still trying to protect myself.
HAHAHAHA.. This cracks me up! I stumbled on this thread and just had to post to you. My XW did this too... (read the thread!) Within a few weeks of moving out she was looking up places to have receptions, I found out she and OM were looking at wedding rings, and b/c I was logging EVERYTHING on MY home computer... I saw her email to OM's sister in law about how she can't wait to meet them, the neice/nephew, and how they will be the BIBLE BOY and FLOWER GIRL, (pardon me while I vomit!!!)
If you really want a laugh take the time to read my threads, esp about her and Virgin Boy (almost 39 at the time and STILL a virgin)
In my case there was no other spouse, but I did chew OM out a couple of times; he was a friend of ours and works the same place I do; yeah, that was FUN. Not.
Oh, and he dumped her after 3 months b/c it was "wrong". She then decided she shouldn't date until she was actually divorced and two months after the D, she met a guy, moved in w/ him after 3 months, engaged a few weeks later and married (eloped) 8 months after that. MAYBE it will last.... but I'm not betting!
Within a few weeks of moving out she was looking up places to have receptions, I found out she and OM were looking at wedding rings, and b/c I was logging EVERYTHING on MY home computer... I saw her email to OM's sister in law about how she can't wait to meet them, the neice/nephew, and how they will be the BIBLE BOY and FLOWER GIRL, (pardon me while I vomit!!!) 
