Thanks sister.

I know you weren't saying that about my H. I'm just wondering it aloud.

I do need to stay in the present and detach even more. My kids hurts this last week are killing me (posted some on your thread)

Trying to hold my head up and deal w/it. Just tough today.

I think your way of thinking is pretty accurate....for me, too. I will do it. Just with a lot of tears today \:\(

Thanks Lissie! You have been a good friend to me.

Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs