Just listened to the VM from H. Lots of spewing.... he doesn't like it when I don't go along with what he wants.. too bad!
He says it is in the papers that I am to split the driving with him. I have to check with my L about this b/c I don't remember the papers saying this. He's the one that moved away 45 min. from his kids. I don't feel as though it is my responsibility to help him with transporting our d for his visitations. If he treated me better I might consider meeting him half way, but until he does I don't want to help him.
In his message he said that "picking up my children is a big burden!" Can you believe he said that? He went on to say that b/c it is in the papers from now on he will pick up d on Friday and I will come to pick her up from his apt on Sunday. "This is the way it is going to be from now on!!!" He spewed.... Ugh!
He then went off on me about our homeowners loan accusing me of not paying it. He says he gets 6 calls a day about it! This is all crap b/c I made arrangements with the loan co a long time ago and have been making the payments.
Now I am upset. He still gets to me. I hate it. Now what???
