vacation is over, I am leaving

[stewart10]

I asked H how he was feeling about the upcoming weekend and he said he was feeling good....so good thing!

Very good thing. I would give just about anything to have my W "seem" as willing to make the M work. I say "seem" because I don't know that your H is 100% committed but at least he is giving you every reason to believe he is. If I asked my W to do Retro right now she probably would laugh in my face. She keeps telling me that we are holding onto something that isn't there anymore.

But good luck this weekend. Don't put too much pressure on it to fix everything. It isn't going to. And I have heard that the weeks following the weekend are just as important to improving things as the weekend itself. It is going to take time to work but going is the first step.

Stew