I don't know, I hate to against what a experience DB coach says. Maybe the rules are different and it is important to try and generate a reaction, either good or bad.
It makes sense to some degree, I have been a good roomate to my W. I do my fair share of chores, sometimes more and sometimes she does more. She know feels very comfortable, best she has in 7 months. She indicated yesterday, that it is a testmenant to what good friends we are. I agreed, she also informed me she has decided to start doing things on her own. She doesn't know when but she wants to start. I was also told yet again, getting tired of this talk, how her loving feelings are gone, and she rehashed how I made her feel.
So my point is maybe the DB coaches perspective is to the former LBS use the potty or get out the bathroom. Given the situation I think I can understand it.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
