Thanks Cat.

I'm confused now, here's the problem.. I'm trying to DB and lovingly distance then I read somewhere that you should act 'as if', in the last week I have tried to be stronger and more upbeat (the party last w.e did wonders for my self confidence), i'm cooking, cleaning up after him etc, I've hugged upto him twice in bed. Last night I casually asked him if he wanted to come to the cinema with me after work on Friday, he said 'NO' then added he'd be too tired, of course i felt rejected, but tried not to show it and carried on with work on my computer.

My question is: lovingly distance or act as if?


P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07