That's so nice of you. I am merely synthesizing/synergizing all the thoughts and readings I've had over many days -- from my Bible Studies, from the support group meetings, from counseling, from these forums. (It's funny how you begin to notice all these similar themes converging at about the same time frame -- all I've done is just to simply put them all together in summary.)
Now I guess I have enough intelligence to see the solution and to figure it out, but I can only hope that I have the necessary wisdom and the strength of character to actually persevere and carry out what I know to be right. Forgiveness is very hard.