Hmm , Update.. that was me updating you guys , I think.
OK, here is the update on what has happened lately:..................................................................................
yup... NOTHING! I saw him literally for 1 minute to give him his mail, kinda drive by style. Before that We saw each other a week before my vacation so that is the first few days in Aug... so over a month... when we saw each other he gave me zero update on his trip, his family (I gave him gifts for them from me) etc. We had a great talk 2 Sat.s ago... I called him the following Fri. He was sleepy so it was blah... nothing since then.
At this point it is kinda strange and kinda obvious that he is not calling me for a reason... one he is probably not even aware of . My guess is that it is his way of dealing with the news that I am leaving and that I have said to him that the door is open on my side...
I asked some question to the folks in Japan about the job offer. One of the things I brought up is that I have spouse that would not move with me right away. I figure I should see how bringing a spouse works so that I can have that built in for H. THe way I see it ,he is my H and I will move forward accordingly. Whether he would ever reeneter the M or move to Japan is another matter entirely but I felt I should build the option in. I am kinda looking forward to telling H that I did that... I think it will freak him out a bit!
I am done though pretending I am single... too confusing for me for now. How he takes that... thats not my problem. I am not begging or twisting his arm, I am just showing that I mean it when I say the door is open.
any way..... time to sleep. I am still getting over a cold. At least there is no one to bother with my coughing at night!
brava
Me: 36 He: 34 no kids Married: 2000 He left: July 05
