My husband and I have been separated for nearly five months. He's been involved in emotional affair for about 3 years and going through MLC. But lately, he's been coming over more, showing interest and we actually had a date recently that went very well. But we still have very little communication. I'm seeing solution oriented therapist and he's considering. Recently, another man has shown some interest in me. We talk sometimes and might have an occasional drink. Today he sent flowers to my office. (which felt pretty good after feeling so little attention for so long) So, my question is, do I bring the flowers home where my husband will see them or leave them at work and say nothing? (BTW - the man is well aware that I'm hoping for reconciliation with my husband - been honest with him)


Me: 41
H: 50
M: 15 years
S14-D12-D10
S: 05/07
Back home: 08/08
EA: 4 yrs