Husband, FYI my name is not Eric that is the OM name. I know I should not have chosen a screen name that is shortened to ERC, which unfortunately is close to Eric.
My friend and I refer to the OM as the Big E or of course Dr. Adultery. That SOB is going to be mocked and ridiculed the rest of his life when he comes up in a conversation. We have a good laugh at the expense of Big E. We have yet to nickname his W OM. Maybe we should call him Pepe Le Pu since he texts messages in French to my friends W.
Happy Birthday!!! 30 what an incredible, wonderful year that was for me....just kidding, I don't even remember last year! Oh right, that was the year my W revealed her A, not a good one. Anyway, try to make this year the best ever, make it one you WILL remember for good reasons. Take care, BD boy!
FYI: Been following your thread (among many) since I started Db'ing -- particulaly since my W is an RN too --> with far too many similarities (sad to say, for either you or I.)
Mark, Thanks...once my D is final I will change my screen name. But as of now I am still on the roller coaster.
Whatisis, Thanks...I plan on making this year much better then this past year.
NoCodeBlues, Thanks....If you need to talk off of the boards my email is in my profile.
LWB, Thanks as always....
Journaling: Since the blow out at the house last Tuesday night things have been fairly quiet. The D is still full steam ahead, but there has been no conflicts. This is all I can ask for at this point.
I have been running around spending as much time with my girls as possible. Which as always is fun, they are awesome. D5 has her first soccer game on Friday and my FIL plans on showing up. I guess he is acting as my W's proxy since she is unable to make it. It is sad now with everything going on my W won't be able to make most of our DD5 soccer games she has to work. In the past she never really worked and would have been able to make all of these games. I guess this what life after D is like. I just hope that I can stay as involved in my girls lives as I have been, they deserve it and so do I.
I finally talked to my L today and gave her the update. I still have no idea when all this is going to be over with, but I am glad my L is on my side.
