So interesting evening... W only filed for separation!! (yay!!)
I get home in enough time to hang out with W and girls for a little bit and then I have my first shrink appt. I'm sitting on the couch with youngest D and W is helping oldest D with homework in the kitchen. Everythings light and OK.
As I'm walking between the kitchen and family room, I catch W texting under the table!!! I ask her what she was doing and she fumbled about the phone being in her pocket etc. I said "Whatever" and walked away. Shaking my head the whole time. She asked "What's wrong".. "Nothing" lather rinse repeat a few times. Now every time I walk by her, the phone keeps getting scooted under something. GRRRRRRR. What balls... stupid OM!!
Anyway, had a panick attack on the way to the shrink as I thought she was probably inviting OM over.
Got home from shrink and we went downstairs to workout. She mentions that she may go for a drive after her workout?? Whatever. She then proclaims she needs to shower after working out instead of doing it in the morning.
Since I've known this woman, she has NEVER taken a shower in the evening. I can tell you she's done it at least twice this week. She said that one of her female friends (who I despise because she keeps inviting OM)asked her to come over. Again... "Whatever" "What's wrong".. lather rinse repeat.
She came back down smelling nice after her shower and said... "Please don't be mad at me" "For what" "I am going for a drive" I was livid.. I said "We'll I'm not happy about it, but you do whatever you need to do" "What's wrong" "If you don't know then it doesn't matter"
She then asked me to get off the treadmill for a minute.. she had to ask 3 times cause I didn't understand what she wanted. She then kissed me on the cheek!!??
What is she doing to me?
I think being the angry guy from time to time works as well. I'll monitor.. If she comes home past 12 tonight, she'll get the silent treatment tomorrow.
Question... I can show on her cell bill where she has been texting this OM like crazy... the bill won't be available till the 29th, which is 3 days after she moves. I was thinking of highlighting all the entries from him and asking "This is just friends?"
I know it's wrong and off, but I'd like to hear your thoughts!!
