one of the things that freaked me out so much when H wanted the kids to go to ow's beachhouse was because all along we have done so well, it just seemed like he was throwing all that way. but in the end, at least so far, he has respected my wishes on that front. I'm sure that won't last forever, not the way things are going, but for now, I'm breathing a little easier, hoping we are back on the same page. of course, tomorrow could shake things up once again.
Sometimes people just get trapped. They pick poorly and then get stuck. I think this has probably happened to the best of us if we look back in our dating record. I cannot imagine your H thinking of this trip as a vacation but that is not for you to obsess over. It does not matter where they are as long as that your kids are not a part of his crazy world of infidelity and indecision. Kids need stability. It sucked when I noticed my D6 started watching me Acting As If and then she started to be this way too. Guess what? It takes a lot of strength to Act As If and it can be downright fake! Our kids lives have been turned upside down but they are lucky to have us. he will be back soon enough. Take this time to refocus on Saving Your Marriage. Tomorrow is another day so don't dread it. Think about how well you have handle some things you never thought you'd have to deal with. Never in my dreams did I ever think I would have any of these convos with the man I chose.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
