I am seeing that I have had one goal in mind for so long (saving the marriage) that I didn't even stop to think what that would look like. I can see that him asking to come back isn't it. Communicating better would be the first step. I just wanted to jump over that all of this time. I guess I thought that I needed to get a committment to save the marriage first, then I would work on the communication. Ugh. No wonder I have been spinning for so long. No wonder he is so frustrated with me.
I think you saying this has made me realize that this is the way I have been looking at it the entire time. Wanting that committment. I feel so dumb not seeing that this was keeping me from communicating with my own H. No wonder he said this wasn't the way he wanted it to work.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
