H told me yesterday that he would pick up the kids from school since he is working overnights this week and getting off at 5 am. He called five minutes before they got out of school to tell me he would be over to pick up the truck to get them. (its an expedition only thing big enough to hold 5 kids, lol). he showed up picked them up, then said he didn't have enough gas money to take them all the way back to his house and he forgot his wallet. i told him since they had homework, would he be ok if he just stayed with them here and helped them with their homework? he said fine.
i went out to run errands (which was me getting my nails done, lol). and we texted a bit about his 18 yo son from his first marriage, and some band concerts.
i came home made tacos, and told him he was welcome to stay. he said he was fine, needed to get home and do laundry before he went to work tonight. we chatted a bit, but i stayed very much stand offish as per LRT.
at one point something happened and he responded to me as 'hun' instead of my name. i didn't even react but i am wondering if he realized?
in the last few days i have noticed little things like that and once him saying 'next time we are getting a sitter for the baby'.
well why would you say that if it is over.
i seriously think he is confused, and is just so afraid to hurt the OW right now that he stays where he is.
am i reading this right? has anyone else's S called them their 'pet name'?
