Hi Fran, Yup, it's me, always on some sort of journey. I was hoping at some point to become JourneysEnd, but I am beginning to figure out that you never really get through with this process, do you? I picked " real" because it means genuine, authentic, whole, etc., and I'd like to get to a place of truly knowing and defining myself, as well as having confidence and asserting that self. The more I work on me, the happier I will be and the healthier my relationships will be. Well, that's my theory anyway, lol.
Thanks for asking about me. I will have to start another thread one of these days, but overall, I am doing well. The sexual mimatches still occur, but H and I have been radically honest with each other ( at this point there is nothing to lose) and we seem to get through the issues as they arise.
Hope you are having a nice evening. La Shana Tova to all ( Happy New Year) from your Jewish board friend, RJ/NJ/IHJ