Is he willing to send a "termination" letter to end it? Not sure if this is the right time to ask since you are still at the beginning of piecing.
I'm pretty sure he would have done this already if he really wanted to.. Again, he knows it's the right way to end it. I'm a tad bit reluctant to demand it at the moment since there are some positive signs such as H spending much more time at home, being much better about my GAL activities, he holds me while we are waking up every morning, we fall asleep holding hands every night, talk talk talk talk...
But, the continued contact is/will eventually negate all of the good. I think OC and my H's would like to simply wake up one morning and be happy in their marriages. With no effort. With no accountability. Without any guilt for hurting so many people.
ok.. I'm pretty sure I'm done with my pity party..
