I don't disagree with what you're saying because Dieda goes into a lot of why the man should share his strength, his understanding, calmness, etc. He also talks about a man's fullest gift as the man giving himself fully in making love to his woman. So "gift" seems to be a broad term that he uses.
You may be speaking toward a higher level of relationship than what I am focusing on. My points are what I see as the very basic fundamental rules men need to understand to lay a strong foundation on which to build and sustain an emotional relationship. I agree the spiritual aspects are a part of Dieda's philosophy.
