Cold differentiation, fusion and stuff.

[Kettricken]

You'll have to clarify "ETA" for me. Ok, you'll have to explain it completely, because I don't even have a good guess.

I'll admit I'm puzzled. (seriously, not sarcarstically) How can it be possible that your list of four points is not "for me" as a woman? The last one, definitely, is .... and all of them would impact me if that's how my husband lived his life. How is it possible for me to a have a "totally and completely different" list of "what is required in a relationship" and have anything other than misery for somebody in the marriage? By your argument, someone isn't going to get their needs met .....