Today I had the bomb drop on me. One of my SIL told me that she heard, from a relative, that my H was with a woman at a party. He is a DJ/Musician. I was in shock and after a while, without yelling/cursing I did leave a voicemail that let him know what I heard and if it was true. He did email and telephone and said it was not true that his family is a bunch of liars.
He does not want to reconcil and pretty much put a lot of blame on me for believing them-although I never said I believed them. That's why I directly asked him. H ended by saying I can believe what I want to believe, he doesn't care anymore. I asked if that meant he wanted a divorce and he said he would file this week. He also said he'd make payments on what he owes me (for past due bill) however at this point it's hard to believe anything. I feel like I should initiate the divorce. Do I just wait this out?
The task ahead of you is never as great as the Power behind you ~ unknown
