Cobra, seriously .... how can you propose the model that a man's primary purpose should be making his mark on the world by whatever means suit him best while a woman's primary purpose should be supporting and encouraging him in that endeavor with focus on their relationship ... and NOT see it as relegating women to a secondary position? That's only one small step up from barefoot and pregnant, IMHO. And I'll throw it out there; I am kind of offended by it.
(although why I saw red when I first saw it is a matter I'll have to take up with myself, later)
My own particular brand of feminism is absolutely NOT of the man-hating/blaming variety, but rather states: I am an individual, unique in brain and heart, with just as much to offer the world as any other human creature; do not attempt to pigeonhole me with my sisters or relegate me to a supporting role. I view men as I view women, neither masters nor slaves, but partners and fellow travelers, brothers. Damned if I'll take off those glasses.
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