sitch update, my Positive attitude was fading away:
W's email -----Original Message----- From: C******,R***** [mailto: ] Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2007 12:46 PM To: C******, J*** [GCG-NAOT] Subject:
So I hear that if C***** (OM) ever comes here you plan on calling the police. What exactly will you tell them? That I am out on my own in my own apartment and in my own place I cant see whom I want? You need to get real and stop acting like I am the last woman on the face of this earth. I just want you to know when I am in my own apartment, you have no control over whom I let into my life or my house. Since it seems you plan on making it a habit to call the police when you want to be vindictive and cannot have your own way I will be happy to let them know this is a habit of yours and you do this because it seems you do not want me moving on with my life I will keep your emails and chat transcripts handy to show that you wanted me out your life. So I guess this is a case with you of if you cant have me no one else will but when Im in your life Im only there to be your door mat. I plan on filing charges against you if you insist on making these allegations. You seriously need to quit because I am getting enough of this like you told me so many times that its over and now you need to tell yourself that.
H's response: -----Original Message----- From: C******, J** [GCG-NAOT] Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2007 12:48 PM To: 'C******,R******' Subject: RE:
I dont want that man around my daughter what so ever. That is the point. I have been good to you and now you still keep on doing this.
-----Original Message----- From: C*******, J*** [GCG-NAOT] Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2007 12:49 PM To: 'C*****,R******' Subject: RE:
What is HE coming to do here when you are still my wife?
That is NOT your choice to make. Dont be making this about H*****, this is about YOU and your jealousy, when all along you have been abusive to me and now that I am finally moving on you cant deal with it. And dont be saying you have been GOOD to me, since when? And I may be your WIFE on paper only. When we are separated you cannot tell me whom to have in MY life. For 9 years I have lived with your crap you walked out on H***** and I and I could not stop you now you cant handle that I just cant deal with you anymore. So you are trying to tell me that when you are with someone else I will be able to tell you to leave them simply because I dont want them around H*****? So you made me spend 24 hrs in jail because you did not want me talking to him claiming that I assualted you and you failed to mention the numerous occasions that you have been verbally and physically abusive to me and now I hear you plan on doing it again.
H's response: -----Original Message----- From: C******, J*** [GCG-NAOT] Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2007 12:59 PM To: 'C******,R******' Subject: RE:
This includes H*****, she WILL NOT and SHOULD NOT be around this man at this time, we are NOT divorced as yet and there is NO need for this man to be around her at this time. This is some sensitive time for her and this will NOT be acceptable while we are still MARRIED.
That is what I have to say about this now and again why the argument when I am here for you as always. I have not called anyone lately much less speak of this person. He is a pussy for coming up with this now when I guess this is your plan to do so after the help I have given you.
I dont need to blow my top now as to I have a two hour meeting to go to and am already in a bad mood with your first email. Nothing I have done is ever physical, that is your next steps. I have not had any next steps.
See you later.
W's response: -----Original Message----- From: C******,R******* [mailto: ] Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2007 12:59 PM To: C******, J***[GCG-NAOT] Subject:
By the way if you don’t want c***** around H***** just remember I have those emails from Christy Ellis (EA) calling H***** a DUMB child but yet she was the one you ran off to be with.
H's response: -----Original Message----- From: C******, J*** [GCG-NAOT] Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2007 1:00 PM To: 'C******,R******' Subject: RE:
Someone who didn exist that you sent money to??? How could you send money to someone who doesnt exist
-----Original Message----- From: C******, R****** [mailto: ] Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2007 1:05 PM To: C******, J**** [GCG-NAOT] Subject: RE:
During the 4 years I've been here I have been verbally and physically abused by you and did not call the police because you knew damn well I had no where else to go and you used that to your advantage to do as you wanted to me. Now Im able to be on my own you call them and claim I assault you, pretending to be the victim and acting as if you've done nothing wrong all these years. You think I will let it go down like this again, I am preparing myself for you this time and I guarantee you you wont have your way.
H's response: -----Original Message----- From: C******, J**** [GCG-NAOT] Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2007 3:05 PM To: 'R****** (Work) (E-mail)' Subject:
I am available now for you to kill me mentally and emotionally. I will take a break in 10 mins.
-------------------------------------- That's my sitch for today, it keeps on going. W called and asked if I was at my desk and I told her yes and she said we'll talk tonight so we will talk. W aint talking about the numerous times she pulled a steak knifes on me and place the knife at my throat, who in their right senses will tolerate this. Besides doing all this, their is also physical abuse on her part, she fails to realize all the abuse she has done unto me. Which part of the law states that abuse cannot be done unto men? W fails to realize now that physical, emotional, verbal, and psychological abuses are as common to women as to men. The courts treats both men and women in the same manner.
Positive attitude but I know there's nothing positive about this talk.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
