A thread for JimmyBean

[Dom R]

PS to chromosphere: I took a quick glance at your thread, and I see that you are "personally invested" in the concept of, "if I dont get sex, i can divorce my wife", since that appears to be the exact position you are in, and I guess you "want out".

I have two suggestions for you:

1. If you truely care about God's will.. please.. read the bible, and do the research for yourself on the subject

2. from your very first post in that thread, looks like you are continually pressuring your wife to have sex with you.
or at least, that may be how she feels

Me: Hey pretty lady, come on over here with me on the couch and let's cuddle for awhile.
Her: I don't want to, we always fall asleep when we cuddle on the couch and then I can't go to sleep later.
Me: I'll bet I can get you tired enough to go to sleep later.

I think you dont have a sex problem with your wife. I think you have an intimacy problem with your wife.
Sounds like your wife is kinda in "walk away mode", when it comes to being close and intimate with you. whether cuddling, or otherwise. She's "decided against it", and you pressuring her for it, is making her more determined to not be close to you.