Nomopo's Funk? Is that what this is?

[Nomopo]

Well, that is fantastic that he is reading those books. You could read the Hendrix book. It is for couples, and there is a related workbook, and the basic premise is that we all actually, subconsciously, seek potential conflict with our partners so we can try to resolve unhealed wounds from childhood. In other words, the conflict in our marriages is unavoidable, and actually good/desirable so we can become more . . . whole or healthy. It's a cool theory, and makes sense. What you have to understand is that it all happens at, and we are almost entirely driven by, the subconscious level. So it may not make sense logically (you may not feel like this happened to you), but after thinking about it it does seem to explain a lot.

Later,
Nomo