Thanks for the update! You have no idea, I'm your H and you my W. Almost the issue match up. Like GD said, he is reacting in hopes for some control, he is so scared and lost right now and probably can't even think it through logically. I wish he would seek help, I know the IC sessions helped me a ton. Then the C kicked me to the curb after like 6 sessions. Said I was fine, hmmmm? I really enjoyed it, but he said I was capable of handling things myself and if W ever wanted we should do MC.
Well get out an mingle, that is what I'm doing. I can't not commit to anything real or big. But I'm having some fun out meeting people at friend events and social gatherings.