I'm with you and Atlas on the ring thing. I just got to the point where it felt like a lie to wear it. Like Atlas said, the R is dead, long live the R (maybe).
Scary, isn't it? A little taste of freedom is nice, but it would be wonderful to have the S back. What if we move on? What if the feelings die? Guess we'll have to cross those bridges as we come to them. What if they come back and we've moved on?
BD
I have moved my wedding band to the right hand. They even have a name for it, a right-hand ring. Clever huh? It is not the typical type plain wedding band and a shame to let it sit around in a box. Just looks like a nice diamond ring with 2 rows of diamonds. Might freak H out to see it on the opposite hand.
I am not dating out of spite that is if I do get one. I would like things to work out with H but he is out going to concert's, dinners, parties with OW so I am not about to sit at home and turn anything down if something good comes my way. May just be the push that I need to detach completely.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
