Okay now make sure you count your blessings. You were really frustrated, angry, and hurt that she hadn't responded to your emails, so praise the Lord for the small things. Be happy that she responded to you. It's a positive step and needs to be respected, and relished.
The money thing is tight. Is that really something that needs to be settled right now? I'm thinking that after your 10 months is up you head home, and you plan on moving home! If that does'nt work with W, then maybe she should move out, OR you find an appropriate place to live. In any case, I don't think it's an issue that has to be solved now.
You've got to get yourself strong with her. You've got to know without any doubt that she is deeply disturbed, and you can not allow her actions to bring you down. You are the rock, the leader. It's the toughest mission you've ever been awarded.
God Bless,
COG
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