OOPS. My apologies to Disillusioned for not realizing you are a guy when I responded. Going to read your thread. Please change the *hims* to *hers* and *hes* to *shes* and forgive me for not reading your sitch before responding. Just was hoping support your decision to keep those words in your head and never say them unless you mean it.
Kel
Quite alright. The advice all seems to be the same whether its a WAH or WAW. It definitely hit home.