If he doesn't have the decency, courage or compassion to stop communicating with his lover, he may need to be shocked into it.
This is so CLEAR to the LBS....why can't the WAS see that ANY contact with the OP is affecting the marriage negatively...fog I guess. It's like they think of the marriage and their affair as unrelated....as we all know all too well that we wouldn't be on the infidelity board if the OP didn't exist.
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