ohh yeah that sounds like my wife. We'll just go back to being friends... but if no contact is a boundary of yours you can express that to him. If my wife were to break it off I wouldn't insist on no contact just state that I can't be in a marriage with him in the wings making the no contact committment is up to her. Leaving after violating my boundary is my choice.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
