...Unfortunately, when a spouse is involved with OP and wants to move on, there isn't anything that can be done. If that relationship ends there might be hope, but right now you are stuck.
Yes - unfortunately you are right about that, Sara. There's not much more I can do. With the OM living 3 hours away from W, they haven't spent enough time together to see the not-so-perfect traits in each other, and their R will not be likely to fail anytime soon.
I would like to thank you, Sara, for your generous contributions on this thread and on so many other forums. You provide a lot of positive encouragement and hope which is so important for those of us who are trying to save our marriages.
Best wishes to all of you who will be attending Retrouvaille weekends in upcoming weeks.
LG
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08
