Talked to MIL earlier today. I had to get an account number for a bill, and she had the nuggets to ask me if W was still going through with this.
I responded "Well... you are paying for her L". Whammo.. off guard. "Well.... she asked for a loan.." Then she proceeded to tell me that they weren't trying to overstep bounds etc with the vehicle, blah blah blah.
I also mentioned that she had gotten a new bank account and that it had hurt my feelings. She asked how I knew and I said I saw the stuff sitting on the passenger seat. She said "Well maybe someone is talking to her"... DUH!!
She did tell me that W told her I was "Hot" the other day. At least I know some things are paying off!! :))

Anyway, W calls and says she's just checking in to see how I am. I said "I'm fine" like nothing was going on.. I asked how she was and she hesitated.. then she said she was OK. I didn't push.
She then said.. "If we don't sign the papers we're OK right?" I said "Sure.. we can hold of as long as it takes." She then said she was confused. I told her I knew and I understood. Then like the prarie dog, she hopped back in her hole.. "I just need some space.. I need to think." I understand..

Someone should mention that in the book "You will say you understand everytime you speak with SO"!!