Cold differentiation, fusion and stuff.

[MJontheMend]

1. The man’s primary purpose is pursuit of his main objective, be that career, a hobby, the arts, whatever.
2. The woman is the inspiration for the man’s primary purpose.
3. The man’s responsibility is to share gifts with his woman that he achieves through pursuit of his primary purpose.
4. The woman’s primary purpose is the relationship.

Is this an accurate representation of Dieda? If so, I have a couple questions.

1) Re: #3 What kinds of gifts will I be getting? I have a tendency to lose jewelery so maybe cash would be best.
2) Re: #4 If I take care of the whole Dr.Laura list by noon, can I slack off for the rest of the day reading novels and wandering around plant nurseries spending my cash gift?

Seriously, I don't have a clear picture of some of the points but I will say that I definitely agree with #1. My 2bx's lack of a primary purpose was no picnic. The guys that I've dated and liked best have all had very clear cut primary purposes and I knew just what they were by the end of our first date, although the fact that some of them also had joint custody of their kids seemed to be making their lives rather overloaded and this gives off kind of a confusing dating vibe. (Of course, the bunkey was giving off rather a confusing vibe herself. - lol) Also, I find that I almost reflexively reject men whose primary purpose doesn't interest me. For instance, I can't date a man who is a hockey coach because I know the relationship wouldn't work because I would be like "How did the game go, honey? Did you team score any touchdowns? (yawn)"