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I know, seriously!!! I think in addition to their hurtful comments & actions - it is part of their arsenal of weaponry!!!


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Hey CVA!

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Anyway, really wondering how to take my R to the next/ different level right now. Going to write down all the questions I have later


I'll be interested to hear what you've been kicking around in this regard. I can sense your frustration of late, and that you are slowly losing your ability to remain stagnant and patient through this (which is understandable). Are you still seeing an IC? Maybe bounce your thoughts off of her once you've gathered them up.

Keep up the good fight, my friend!

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adult finder dot com. I was thinking about joining that site, its dreadful that you cant see the boobs and touch the butt. Then W covers up and dont wear anything provacative. Isnt texas the capital of strip clubs - cva you need to explore.


See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
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Not my thing, never has been, I have a W that rivals any stripper even after 4 kids!

Think Heather Locklear


Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
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I know, I am a little late on all this.

I would like to get fake boobs but don't have the money so that is why I got my tattoo and planning on another one soon. I settled for the boobs in a bra. Guess I will upset the next guy I end up with when he realizes they are not all that. Cruel I know. That is all I hear from the guy friends about H's new woman is that she got really big boobs but sounds like she doesn't have much of anything else.


Been about 3 1/2 months for me. Sex was an issue in my M simply because he just treated me like a sex doll. Ok let's pull you out of the closet now that I am ready to do it then put you back in there till the next time. So I basically hit him where it hurt where as others will take to fighting about everything else. His whole attitude just put me off towards him but boy did the hormones kick in when the first bomb hit. Like Saving said you don't know what you have till it is gone or maybe it was just me actually not wanting to be alone and a single mom but really found him sexually attractive again. Anywhoo, in those 2 weeks
I really made up for the lost years, shame it was too late to change him around and away from the OW. Now I better stay away from that hbo show if it is mini porn. Definetely don't need that being alone right now.


Me: 41
H: 39
D: 6
S: 4
M-14 T-16
first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.)
second bomb: 6-4-2007
(found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything)
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CVA,

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Think Heather Locklear


Don't know whether to envy you, hate you, or bow to you.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.
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Kinda sad, all of us on a sex diet:(

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You guys need to quit complaining until you've at least crossed the two-year deprivation mark.

Thankfully, HOUSTON is THE strip club capital of the world, or so I have heard.

Nomo


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W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
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Originally Posted By: CVA
Not my thing, never has been, I have a W that rivals any stripper even after 4 kids!


That is so sweet! Have you ever told your W that before?


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Ahhhh, Nomo, been stealing all sorts of your thoughts/ advice.

How are u bud? Out of town as u know.

Kelley, who is in the closet about what?

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Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
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