He didnt say but assume he got online to see the new bill.
This morning I this si how our email convo went: WARNING VERY LONG!!Thanks in advance if you read it entirely!
Before I start let me remind you of the imaginary BF that my H thinks I have( its really just a freind, but i wanted to drop this imaginary thing once & for all for the jealously is really getting to him)
M- Let me know if for sure you can stay w/the girls Saturday so I can work & ask my boss for overtime.<its his turn to keep them,previously he said he wouldnt babysit for me and my BF> And why is it some men just cant be freinds w/out anything more? I called it off w/ him lastnight for we are in 2 different levels. I dont need or want anything serious right now. Anyhoo, lets try to get through this day w/out any attacks, ok?
H- I will keep the kids for you this weekend if you want me to. I will be working Saturday also but I will bring all three of them to work w/ me the two little ones have been asking me when am I gonna bring them to work w/ me. So what did this douche bag want? Is he desperate for attention? I cant tell u what to do but as a freind if I ever was one I would tell you to take it easy. And no I am not going to argue w/you today. It was nice to see you yesturday.
M- Thanks. It was nice seeing you too. I like it when we can talk w/ no arguments. It really isnt worth it. I no longer care about being right and just try to learn from my past and move along w/ whatever punches this life wants to throw at me. I told him (my imaginary BF)that I will not be good for him or anyone right now. I said I would only prolly end up hurting him for I might be on the rebound. Its never good to jump from one relationship straight to another. Anyhoo, thanks for taking the time...I am rambling here.
H- No its not good jumping from one R to another, belive me.All I want is to be by myself. You can ramble all you want. (??thats a change?)Whats the deal w/ his kid?
M- He is divorced but has primary custody of his kid and the ex cheated on him and doesnt even want the boy. The boy is an adorable 4yr old and I feel sorry for him.But he seems to be a responsible father. <all of this is true regarding my FREIND>
H- I think he is looking for a mommy for his son, you have three of your own, I dont think you are ready to add another kid.I know I am not.
M- You know when you told me you were having a difficult time adjusting to her kid (OW)?I didnt understand that but someonelse I know dated a divorced man w/ a kid and said the same thing.I dont know if it make s a diff b/c I am alread a mom,but I couldnt turn down being a mom to another kid if I absolutley had to do it.
H- You know I love my kids way too much all three of them. And it hurts me that I am living somewhere else without them. And it hurts me even more knowing that there will be somebody else with them.But beleive me it is not easy dealing with other peoples kids.
So this I knew from months ago when he confessed that OW kid is a spoiled brat. D10 told me that her D10 complains an dwines to her mom when H does not do what she asks him to do.
