Cobra the interpretation that take from Deidas work is a bit different.
"Your mission is your priority. Unless you know your mission and have aligned your life to it, your core will feel empty. Your presence in the world will be weakened, as will your presence with your intimate partner."
What he seems to be saying to me is that what the feminine wants is the masculine presence and consciousness. The career and the purpose are just manifestations of that presence and consciousness in a realm that are not in relationship. The gifts that you give are of your masculine consciousness and presence not only to your wife but the world (cosmos/creation/everything/god).
