Yes, I know it's all too recent, the "not just friends" book says that the first 2-3months are the hardest, when both partners are ambivalent. I almost wanted to shout to him "if you have feelings for her and none for me then go and leave with her". Yes, he is telling me the truth, but how it hurts.
Hey Cat, Found your thread and trying to catch up. 2-3 months? I guess I'll need to steel myself for a long roller coaster ride. I'm shouting in my head right now what you quoted above.