I understand were you are coming from. I finally had to take the ring off, I know most don't, but I finally realized that our R was dead. I'm open to a new one, but that M is gone.
The fact is your willing, if he isn't then he isn't. My WAW says there are too many issues and won't do anything to assist, so all I can do is hope and work on me. But the point is you are working on you, your heart is in it. The rings, the shirts, etc...are all just symbols of devotion. It isn't gone, you just don't need the reminder right now. It is true by the time he finds his you may have lost yours, that can happen, but don't let it hold you back.
