Yep, he lives here... not happily at the moment (just posted a longer update on my thread), but he's here. Plan??? Surely you're kidding... Seriously though, I have no idea what his plan is. Mine is to get through this with my sanity intact, keep working on me, and getting myself mentally to a point where I know I'll be ok with or without him (hopefully with, but only if he clearly wants that too). forever21 made a good point on my thread that sometimes people don't get the luxury of getting to that point mentally before the M ends and they're forced into it. I figure I'll make the best use of this time to try and move in that direction.
Sorry you were feeling kinda down and out last night. I know that feeling really well. It's tough because you want to enjoy the moment as much as possible but at the same time you've got all your own issues going on in your head. Hope you managed to get some decent sleep once you fell asleep.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Seriously though, I have no idea what his plan is. Mine is to get through this with my sanity intact, keep working on me, and getting myself mentally to a point where I know I'll be ok with or without him (hopefully with, but only if he clearly wants that too). forever21 made a good point on my thread that sometimes people don't get the luxury of getting to that point mentally before the M ends and they're forced into it. I figure I'll make the best use of this time to try and move in that direction.
