What exactly is the 'plan' with him being 'unsure'? He lives there, right?
Yeah, I can see why you would want to keep yourself busy. How disappointing.

My H wanted to spend the night last night. (And did.)I was feeling distant because it was rumbling around in my head that "he's moved out""He left you" and was disgruntled over the sitch. Made it difficult for me to fully enjoy myself and to fall asleep. Oh well. I only have 2 more months of this before we "revisit" our "contract" and decide what to do.

I have yet to find out what is going on tonight or this weekend.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing