You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him think. It's a shame that your H isn't continuing IC; great that you are.

You remind me of what Swashy posted in that thread from a week or two ago, you're a budding success story because you identified and fixed (are fixing) things that you don't like about yourself, not necessarily because the M was saved or not.

Just curious, are you still open to working on the M if your H wakes up?

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.